Snitching
Most people,
especially males, are instinctively opposed to
snitching. Snitching or "ratting someone out" is
seen as a low, traitorous, despicable act.
Anyone with integrity or self-respect will never
snitch on someone. Or so it is claimed.
First, what is snitching? To snitch means to
tell the truth about something questionable or
forbidden to authority. Whether it's children
snitching on each other to their parents, or
informants snitching on criminals to the cops, the
idea is that one person exposes the forbidden actions
or plans of another to some authority, who will then
punish the offender.
I don't think snitching is always bad. For
example, a father is at a playground with his
children. The father notices a man who is trying to
lure his children with candy into a windowless
van. What can the father do? He has
several choices: He can confront this man and
tell him to go away, to which the man can easily
respond with "No." The father can physically
assault him somehow, at which point the man can call
the police and have the father arrested for
assault. And finally, the father can call the
police and report a suspicious person at a playground,
a potential pedophile luring children into his
car. In other words, the father can snitch on
the man to the cops. Would that be a bad, immoral
act? I doubt it. Even a hardened
gang-member who has children will agree that reporting
this man to police is not a bad thing, yet it is
clearly snitching. The reader may suggest a
fourth alternative: Tell the man that unless he
leaves, police will be called. It's not
snitching because it's not done in secret. I
think that is a horrible idea because the potential
child predator will simply move to another
playground. The responsible thing to do is to
apprehend this individual, not make him go away.
If he goes away, he'll just find some other playground
with children to victimize.
What if you overhear a couple of men discussing a plot
to fly planes into buildings? Will you snitch on
them to the police or will you allow them to carry out
their plans? What if you're in a bar and you
overhear a man bragging to his buddy about how he
raped and murdered a girl for fun? Will you rat
this man out to the cops, or will you keep your mouth
shut and allow this murderous psychopath to roam about
freely in your neighborhood? What if you
overhear two boys discussing their plans to shoot up
their school? The point is, not all
snitching is bad. In fact, I think in certain
cases if you don't snitch on someone,
you'd be committing an immoral act.
When asked "Is snitching a bad thing?" the knee-jerk
reaction of most young men is "Hell's yeah! Snitches
are the lowest form of life!" but I wonder how these
men would behave in the scenarios I outlined above.